MSJ-03: Perpetrator Tactics: Introducing Pleasure to Abuse
At the best of times the child or young person often feels a sense of confusion when exploring sexuality. Sexual abuse adds to this confusion especially when perpetrators
MPOD-18: Words: the Idea of Being a "Survivor"
you might be really on top of it one week and then all of a sudden what you’ve learnt has just turned bad and you just feel like a little pile of...
SIGHTS-10: Testing Your Resiliency
Do you have the conditions in your life that research shows help people to be resilient? Take the quiz and find out
ART-09: Why I Didn't Remember for Years
None of that explains why I suddenly stopped mid-stride that day, struck by a new and horrible understanding of Charles’ outburst. I wish I could explain fully why it took until then for...
MPOD-17: Emotion a Little Neuroscience
Interestingly, when guys attend the workshops and we begin dropping a little knowledge on neuroscience and emotion their beliefs begin to change and accelerated healing often follows.
INPOD-23: Defining and Overcoming Fear of Intimacy 2
People who experience this fear don't usually wish to avoid intimacy, and may even long for closeness, but frequently push others away or even sabotage relationships nonetheless.
INPOD-22: Defining and Overcoming Fear of Intimacy 1
Fear of intimacy, sometimes referred to as intimacy avoidance or avoidance anxiety, is characterized as the fear of sharing a close emotional
INPOD-21: Seasons of Healing 2
continued...Coach T chops it up with Mike, another male survivor who entered the program years ago. They candidly discuss the various seasons of life in healing and dealing with sexual abuse.
INPOD-20: Seasons of Healing 1
Coach T chops it up with Mike, another male survivor who entered the program years ago. They candidly discuss the various seasons of life in healing and dealing with sexual abuse.
INPOD-24: Partner/Spouse Burnout
Relationship burnout refers to someone detaching or disconnecting from a partner for a variety of reasons. One of the reasons might include dealing with challenging issues of a male survivor partner. Over time,
INPOD-19: Scotty(aka Spock) Six Years Later
Scotty: I'm not a PERFECT person today - and that's OK. I can finally laugh at myself with healthy shame. I have and am developing an even healthier shame. I'm conscious of how I'm feeling. If I was to say
INPOD-16: Disclosure - My Partner Loves me, but Can't Support me Anymore
Often time dealing with sexual leads to partners, spouses detaching or disconnecting from the male survivor. It can be for a variety of reasons. Over time, someone may subconsciously or